We had a banner weekend with the potty, which included several more poopies on the big potty. I really think a notable leap forward is imminent. I am so hoping she'll have some success at school in the near term.
I always assumed it would be easier to get the number 2s happening on the potty before the pees and so far it looks like I might be right. Either way I'm a pretty proud Mama.
I'm a Mom. After years of desire and uncertainty if the day would ever come here I am. Follow along on the adventure..
Monday, December 30, 2019
Friday, December 27, 2019
Back and forth
She didn't go down too hard with whatever that was last weekend, thank goodness... but then today when I picked her up from school they indicated she had a very short nap and complained about her belly and her head! She reiterated to me that her forehead hurt. After we got home a bit of tylenol took care of that pretty fast.
On other news for this evening, while on the little potty she tooted - after which she noted she needed to poop. I moved her to the big potty and sure enough it happened! That's the third time on the potty and since we went from surprise to resisting and now to telling me in advance that's pretty remarkable in my opinion.
On other news for this evening, while on the little potty she tooted - after which she noted she needed to poop. I moved her to the big potty and sure enough it happened! That's the third time on the potty and since we went from surprise to resisting and now to telling me in advance that's pretty remarkable in my opinion.
Saturday, December 21, 2019
Friday, December 13, 2019
Big girl, big potty
Periodically Avery prefers the big potty. Tonight after saying she pooped and had not she opted for the big potty. I heard a couple of toots while she peeped, so I encouraged her to sit longer and was rewarded with her first poop on the big potty! We were both very excited.
On a personal front, the full moon and friday the 13th had enough pull to wake my body for the first time in 6 months and I am actually having another period. I felt discomfort the other day and have been bloated for a week, but didn't suspect a thing. Man, bleh. It is such a mixed feeling. To have one makes me feel less old but the discomforts aren't fun.
On a personal front, the full moon and friday the 13th had enough pull to wake my body for the first time in 6 months and I am actually having another period. I felt discomfort the other day and have been bloated for a week, but didn't suspect a thing. Man, bleh. It is such a mixed feeling. To have one makes me feel less old but the discomforts aren't fun.
Monday, December 9, 2019
A song and a meal
Remember when we fought to get Avery eating chunks of food? She's doing great with many things and I've not had to worry much lately. Yesterday I made mashed potatoes and she was refusing them (my mashed potatoes are often called whipped as they're smooth, like Mom's were). When we did get her to take a bite it was triggering her gag reflex, what's up with that?! She gladly ate the brussels sprouts that went with the meal without issue. Go figure.
At bed time Avery continues to want to dance and/or sing. Last night she regaled me with the Itsy Bitsy Spider, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, and a few verses of Old MacDonald. She remembers a good bit of the words with some minor revisions which are incredibly adorable. For example: "Old MacDonald had a pig" (instead of a farm) and then when she wanted to sing about the pig in a subsequent verse "Old MacDonald had a pig _again_" More friends continue to indicate that her voice is very clear and easy to understand.
At bed time Avery continues to want to dance and/or sing. Last night she regaled me with the Itsy Bitsy Spider, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, and a few verses of Old MacDonald. She remembers a good bit of the words with some minor revisions which are incredibly adorable. For example: "Old MacDonald had a pig" (instead of a farm) and then when she wanted to sing about the pig in a subsequent verse "Old MacDonald had a pig _again_" More friends continue to indicate that her voice is very clear and easy to understand.
Sunday, November 17, 2019
On the nice list
Avery's visit with Santa this year went ok. She didn't cry, but she sure wouldn't smile either. I'm just glad we're past the crying hump!
Thursday, November 7, 2019
Tuesday, November 5, 2019
Following up
Today I got Avery to her pediatrician for a follow up check on her injury. This morning between school drop off and our trip to the doctor the one side of her nose was trying to bleed again. Poor kiddo. The doctor did indicate this is reasonable and could happen for a couple of weeks. All in all the swelling is way down and she is looking pretty good. We're okay.
Sunday, November 3, 2019
Humpty Dumpty
On Friday school called me shortly after 10am. No one was more eager to hear what they had to say than I was after she started out with "we had an accident". I left the house shortly thereafter to find my kiddo still wailing a bit, to take her straight to MedExpress. Long story short, she fell in the hall as the class was headed downstairs for playtime and put her upper lip, just below her nose into the metal door stopper.
We are so grateful that God was watching over her. There are no broken or loose teeth, no broken nose, no major damage whatsoever... but it sure didn't look like that was the case. She has a scratch on her upper lip towards her nose and no cut on the inside of her mouth. Her nose continues to try to bleed and is still a bit swollen and slightly mis-shapen. Her lip swelling went down a good bit, but you can still see the bruise just inside of her mouth on her top lip.
She's a trooper. She still ate well and has allowed me to brush her teeth pretty normally since the day of. She did bump it last night and cried a bit as her nose bled a little. I love to cuddle with her and when she came home she was happy to cuddle with me until her nap time -- but I don't want her cuddles if it means she is in pain.
I'm to follow up with her pediatrician. Since the office was closed when I called on Friday afternoon I have to wait until tomorrow to try and get her in asap. In the mean time, I continue my prayers of gratitude for how lucky we are and to ask for healing and to have the swelling go away returning her beautiful little face untouched.
We are so grateful that God was watching over her. There are no broken or loose teeth, no broken nose, no major damage whatsoever... but it sure didn't look like that was the case. She has a scratch on her upper lip towards her nose and no cut on the inside of her mouth. Her nose continues to try to bleed and is still a bit swollen and slightly mis-shapen. Her lip swelling went down a good bit, but you can still see the bruise just inside of her mouth on her top lip.
She's a trooper. She still ate well and has allowed me to brush her teeth pretty normally since the day of. She did bump it last night and cried a bit as her nose bled a little. I love to cuddle with her and when she came home she was happy to cuddle with me until her nap time -- but I don't want her cuddles if it means she is in pain.
I'm to follow up with her pediatrician. Since the office was closed when I called on Friday afternoon I have to wait until tomorrow to try and get her in asap. In the mean time, I continue my prayers of gratitude for how lucky we are and to ask for healing and to have the swelling go away returning her beautiful little face untouched.
Friday, November 1, 2019
Trick or Treat!
We did it! Avery had her first successful trick or treat last night. Sure, she dressed up last year, but she hung near the house. Last night we actually ventured up the road gathering some goodies and practicing our manners (saying "Trick or Treat" and "Thank you."). She's definitely mine -- despite the mist of rain she was ready to keep going.
Our costume this year: a flamingo!
Our costume this year: a flamingo!
Thursday, October 24, 2019
I have nothing to wear.
My child's closet officially looks like she's a hoarder. Our neighbor so graciously offered for us to look through bags of clothes from her daughters. There were many things on which we have similar tastes. How do you say no? It's okay, we'll wear as much as we can. I've noticed photos from this time last year in a few items that Avery is juuuust getting too big for, so things are definitely lasting a lot longer now.
Her coat and jacket situation would make my mother proud (she loved her coats -- and gloves). At least we have one heavy coat that can be set aside for playing in the snow this winter with no worries of it being too messy for every day or church use.
Friday, October 18, 2019
Don't Forget
There are so many cute things about Avery. I want to remember them all. It seems so small, but I've come today to make a few notes.
She loves boots. Last winter she loved her purple boots with the white fluffy lining and wanted to keep wearing them even when I pulled out the shorts. I shouldn't have been surprised by her instant obsession with this winter's silvery boots with a white lining, but I admit I am surprised that she took also to her red cowboy boots! The first day I had her put them on she stood up, sat right back down, and wanted them off. Within a couple of days now she wants to wear them every day. She can tell you "cowboy boots" pretty clearly too!
Three of her other pairs of shoes (yes she has a ton of shoes, don't judge me) have unicorns on them. She'll tell you she wants the unicorn shoes, but she actually says "hay-corn" which is too adorbs.
She is also obsessed with her clip in hair accessory with the little yellow doggie on it. She's still letting me pick out her clothes, but she decides how she wants her hair: one pony or two, if she wants a bow, clip, or gummy, etc; she also picks the shoes. Even if they don't match, it's okay.
She loves boots. Last winter she loved her purple boots with the white fluffy lining and wanted to keep wearing them even when I pulled out the shorts. I shouldn't have been surprised by her instant obsession with this winter's silvery boots with a white lining, but I admit I am surprised that she took also to her red cowboy boots! The first day I had her put them on she stood up, sat right back down, and wanted them off. Within a couple of days now she wants to wear them every day. She can tell you "cowboy boots" pretty clearly too!
Three of her other pairs of shoes (yes she has a ton of shoes, don't judge me) have unicorns on them. She'll tell you she wants the unicorn shoes, but she actually says "hay-corn" which is too adorbs.
She is also obsessed with her clip in hair accessory with the little yellow doggie on it. She's still letting me pick out her clothes, but she decides how she wants her hair: one pony or two, if she wants a bow, clip, or gummy, etc; she also picks the shoes. Even if they don't match, it's okay.
Monday, October 14, 2019
I have to be doing something right.
It's my job to make sure this little girl knows all about Jesus. That's how I see it. So we read the Christmas manger book whenever she wants, we say our prayers, we thank him, we go to church, and we even practice signing his name.
For a while I've been asking Avery what her dolly's name is and she simply says "Baby", so Baby it has been. Yesterday I asked again and she told me her doll's name was Jesus. Not only did she tell me, but she made her version of the sign for it too. Good pick kiddo!
For a while I've been asking Avery what her dolly's name is and she simply says "Baby", so Baby it has been. Yesterday I asked again and she told me her doll's name was Jesus. Not only did she tell me, but she made her version of the sign for it too. Good pick kiddo!
Wednesday, October 9, 2019
Teef
Yesterday Avery had her first dentist appointment. All looks well, but they did suggest that I start flossing her and using fluoride toothpaste. I just don't feel comfortable with the fluoride until she is able to spit it out. But I am going to try and take the floss suggestion. It's good advice for me too, so I ordered some of those pieces of floss on plastic sticks.
She did pretty well there. She did cry, but that helped to open her mouth up for us to all get a view. The view was good enough that I caught a glimpse of the last 4 baby teeth which have broken the gums! She is such a big girl.
She did pretty well there. She did cry, but that helped to open her mouth up for us to all get a view. The view was good enough that I caught a glimpse of the last 4 baby teeth which have broken the gums! She is such a big girl.
Saturday, October 5, 2019
Another notable leap
Periodically Avery says or does something that feels so significant, it tends to be something said or done so clearly and unprompted that really makes me aware of how much she is growing and progressing. Last night she looked up from her dinner (unprompted in any way) and said "please may I get milk". Sure it should be "may I have milk" but this is a huge leap from "milk". I'm impressed.
We are definitely at the stage where I know she's learning a ton that may not be apparent. A few examples:
- She tests boundaries. When I tell her no and indicate that if she continues to do or not do something (usually eating) what the repercussion will be she tends to snap to... or continue in the same manner with a grin staring at me.
- I downloaded an app focused on learning letters. In one edu-game it shows 4 balloons, each with a different letter and the characters asks them to click one of those letters. How often she got it right on the first or second try wasn't luck and many of her 'mistakes' appeared to be obvious because she'd giggle when the character would say "uh huh" and wag his finger before she'd click that same incorrect answer again.
Several leaps are apparent as we get ready in the morning. She loves routine as much as I do. A day I was running late and it was clear she had already pottied in her diaper I tried to skip having her sit on the potty. She cried the whole way to school saying "no potty".
On another day she didn't want this skirt she wanted the purple one. Then she wanted the green shirt to go with the purple skirt and the halloween socks. Another time I tried to get away with not putting the second hair gummy in her hair that she had pulled (it looked good pulled with a single pony). She reached up and touched her pony and immediately whined that she wanted two.
I am in so much trouble.
We are definitely at the stage where I know she's learning a ton that may not be apparent. A few examples:
- She tests boundaries. When I tell her no and indicate that if she continues to do or not do something (usually eating) what the repercussion will be she tends to snap to... or continue in the same manner with a grin staring at me.
- I downloaded an app focused on learning letters. In one edu-game it shows 4 balloons, each with a different letter and the characters asks them to click one of those letters. How often she got it right on the first or second try wasn't luck and many of her 'mistakes' appeared to be obvious because she'd giggle when the character would say "uh huh" and wag his finger before she'd click that same incorrect answer again.
Several leaps are apparent as we get ready in the morning. She loves routine as much as I do. A day I was running late and it was clear she had already pottied in her diaper I tried to skip having her sit on the potty. She cried the whole way to school saying "no potty".
On another day she didn't want this skirt she wanted the purple one. Then she wanted the green shirt to go with the purple skirt and the halloween socks. Another time I tried to get away with not putting the second hair gummy in her hair that she had pulled (it looked good pulled with a single pony). She reached up and touched her pony and immediately whined that she wanted two.
I am in so much trouble.
Sunday, September 22, 2019
Oktoberfest
Another week, and weekend, has passed. I'm always so sad when I put her to bed on Sunday night. I don't want my full days with her to be over for 5 days, but I don't want to wish any time away either.
This weekend we had two visits to our local Oktoberfest. Friday after I picked her up we had dinner at our church's spaghetti dinner and then we walked over to get dessert and checkout a button box band. Saturday her Nonna and Nonno came in to join us at the event - so more food, strolling, checking out music, and even a ride on the kiddie cars they had there.
I've started to pepper in a few Italian words to Avery's vocabulary. I've been working hard on duolingo to make my own progress, it helps to share with her. She's getting better with finger control, which helps greatly on a few signs. More than that, her verbal communication is making leaps and bounds. This isn't a one or two word girl - she can tell you, if pushed sometimes to do so, exactly what she means/wants.
On the other hand, we've also started using the naughty step - thank you super nanny.
This weekend we had two visits to our local Oktoberfest. Friday after I picked her up we had dinner at our church's spaghetti dinner and then we walked over to get dessert and checkout a button box band. Saturday her Nonna and Nonno came in to join us at the event - so more food, strolling, checking out music, and even a ride on the kiddie cars they had there.
I've started to pepper in a few Italian words to Avery's vocabulary. I've been working hard on duolingo to make my own progress, it helps to share with her. She's getting better with finger control, which helps greatly on a few signs. More than that, her verbal communication is making leaps and bounds. This isn't a one or two word girl - she can tell you, if pushed sometimes to do so, exactly what she means/wants.
On the other hand, we've also started using the naughty step - thank you super nanny.
Monday, September 16, 2019
Riding our way through the weekend
This was a crazy active/busy weekend. On Saturday Avery and I hosted her cousins K, I, and L. There was pizza, Halloween arts and crafts, a trip for ice cream, and stops at two playgrounds at the local park. Avery didn't nap and even tried wiping out as we drove to the first playground. She made it through like a trooper.
Sunday was our usual church and after a portion of her normal nap, her first trip to Kennywood Park with thanks to another cousin, T who gifted us two adult tickets so that we could give her this experience. Avery found the Thomas train quite pleasing, but also enjoyed the other rides, including the Junior Phantom roller coaster.
Sunday was our usual church and after a portion of her normal nap, her first trip to Kennywood Park with thanks to another cousin, T who gifted us two adult tickets so that we could give her this experience. Avery found the Thomas train quite pleasing, but also enjoyed the other rides, including the Junior Phantom roller coaster.
Thursday, September 5, 2019
Getting through the night
If I get into her room before she's awake Avery typically needs a few minutes to fully rouse. I have noticed however that if I scoop her up more often than not the diaper doesn't have much in it. That's great progress to know she's not peeing too much overnight. It also means she will need to go soon. Yesterday and today I took her in all of her groggy glory to the potty and was rewarded with quick success. While she isn't happy being moved before she's awake the fog fades quickly and she seems very pleased when we get to celebrate using the potty successfully so quickly.
Sunday, August 25, 2019
Two. Not so terrible.
It has been a very busy weekend. We traveled on Friday for a viewing for the husband of an old friend. It is such a saddening situation, but it was nice to see several people Avery had not yet met.
Saturday, well Saturday was this sweet little lady's birthday. We didn't do a party this year, instead we went to Idlewild (and caught up with the Wildauers). But first, we opened her presents. Avery loved her little keyboard and Elmo shirt. We had perfect weather for Idlewild. We had been promising her a ride on a train all week, and I'm pretty sure that was the undersell of the year. First thing in the gate we did ride that train, and one more time before we left -- at Avery's request. In between we rode several big rides with her, all of which she did great on, and several other rides, including a few that she rode by herself like a champ. She did not nap all day, maintained a pretty good attitude all day, and still made it most of the way home before falling asleep.
Turns out she got the whole weekend as a birthday. Today (Sunday) we bought some cake with her name on it, because, well, you can't not have a cake for your kid - even if I did make cake pops for her last weekend. Yes, she totally blew out the candles all by herself! She also took to singing the happy birthday song all day today using the microphone attached to her keyboard.
Saturday, well Saturday was this sweet little lady's birthday. We didn't do a party this year, instead we went to Idlewild (and caught up with the Wildauers). But first, we opened her presents. Avery loved her little keyboard and Elmo shirt. We had perfect weather for Idlewild. We had been promising her a ride on a train all week, and I'm pretty sure that was the undersell of the year. First thing in the gate we did ride that train, and one more time before we left -- at Avery's request. In between we rode several big rides with her, all of which she did great on, and several other rides, including a few that she rode by herself like a champ. She did not nap all day, maintained a pretty good attitude all day, and still made it most of the way home before falling asleep.
Turns out she got the whole weekend as a birthday. Today (Sunday) we bought some cake with her name on it, because, well, you can't not have a cake for your kid - even if I did make cake pops for her last weekend. Yes, she totally blew out the candles all by herself! She also took to singing the happy birthday song all day today using the microphone attached to her keyboard.
Tuesday, August 6, 2019
My princess upon her throne
With my sister in visiting I have an extra hand. I also have Avery off of school for a few days. As such, we're taking our first venture into potty training. Day one (yesterday) she had two light trickles and one good pee in the potty. I know for a fact she was holding/not going on me for one length of time on the toilet, because as soon as the diaper went on she peed and lit the line up blue. No poops in the potty yet.
I will say this, she was very patient and spent good spurts of time on the toilet happily, providing she had TV to watch or we kept her otherwise engaged with books etc.
Day two has commenced.
I will say this, she was very patient and spent good spurts of time on the toilet happily, providing she had TV to watch or we kept her otherwise engaged with books etc.
Day two has commenced.
Wednesday, July 24, 2019
Safety First
I have had to purchase a few more things to help keep Avery safe. The first are slide 'locks' for the bi-fold doors to avoid her pinching her fingers between them. It's a bit of annoyance to me, but I am sure I'll get use to using them. The next is a flip lock, which I've had for a while, but I finally installed it, on the basement door. It's up nice and high so she can't reach it. Once she fully masters a door knob, which isn't far off, this will prevent spills down the basement stairs. The last items are ones I am sure will displease her greatly. I now have two variants of leashes for her. At last there are times when she wants to walk instead of being carried. This is great for my back, but it brings new challenges. I now have a backpack style harness with butterfly wings and a leash and a wrist-to-wrist attachment for the two of us. She tried both on and seemed to really dislike the first one but found the second entertaining.
We have also been successful in getting Avery to eat a little bit of carrot and broccoli. She even said "Mmmm" while eating the broccoli! She's still a bit of a carb and sugar fiend, but who can blame her. It's hard to tell her no when she sweetly asks for a pretzel after school every day. Ok, I don't always say no.
Here we are one month before her second birthday. I can't help but think that 1/9th of it is "over", slipped through my fingers. Continuing to pray for time to slow down and to enjoy every moment.
We have also been successful in getting Avery to eat a little bit of carrot and broccoli. She even said "Mmmm" while eating the broccoli! She's still a bit of a carb and sugar fiend, but who can blame her. It's hard to tell her no when she sweetly asks for a pretzel after school every day. Ok, I don't always say no.
Here we are one month before her second birthday. I can't help but think that 1/9th of it is "over", slipped through my fingers. Continuing to pray for time to slow down and to enjoy every moment.
Sunday, July 14, 2019
So much energy
The twos are here already. Avery is so full of energy and pushing every boundary and button she can find. She'll hit just to get your reaction sometimes when she's acting all crazy. This is definitely a test. She's running well, which is good, because she's doing it a lot burning off energy. Today her nap was just over an hour. I'm not looking forward to when the nap time permanently shortens. I just started working out to try and get healthy again and I need that time to work out, shower, and then relax for a few. Give me the strength and stamina to keep up Lord.
Sunday, July 7, 2019
Rain rain go away
Not much pool time in the past few days - too many thunderstorms have been getting in the way. The storm cloud is also rolling in and demonstrating what the "terrible twos" are all about. Avery has been yelling, throwing fits, and exponentially getting into more stuff. I really wish we had nicer weather so I could get her outside and wear her out.
Don't get me wrong. She is still a lovey and charming little girl. But the two-year old devil pops out a lot more frequently.
Don't get me wrong. She is still a lovey and charming little girl. But the two-year old devil pops out a lot more frequently.
Monday, July 1, 2019
Chilling by the pool
We hit the plastic swimming pool in the back yard pretty hard this past weekend. It was surprisingly pleasant down under my deck despite the 80 degree plus temps - a nice breeze in the shade. Avery had a good time with her pool. I think having her out of a diaper in her swimming suit also helped her understand a little more about how the feeling of going potty correlates and she experienced what happens. The first time she cried pretty hard, confused about what was happening. After that she was stepping out of the pool more often than not to pee and telling me as she was going. I guess that's a good first step before getting her to tell me before she starts going, right?
Sunday, June 23, 2019
Goofy Girl
Today Avery leaned into my arm like she was going to bite, but it wasn't a situation where she was angry... turns out she just wanted to flick her tongue all over my arm. It was a pretty good laugh, which just spurred her on.
The other morning I recorded what equates to Stewie Griffin saying "Lois, Ma, Mommy, Mama" over the monitor. In recent weeks we have also seen grumbly voices being comically used. All I'm saying is this girl keeps finding new ways to put smiles on my face and of making me laugh.
Even the look on her face when she's been corrected and it hasn't sunk in that I'm being serious is too stinking cute and is hard to maintain a poker face through.
The other morning I recorded what equates to Stewie Griffin saying "Lois, Ma, Mommy, Mama" over the monitor. In recent weeks we have also seen grumbly voices being comically used. All I'm saying is this girl keeps finding new ways to put smiles on my face and of making me laugh.
Even the look on her face when she's been corrected and it hasn't sunk in that I'm being serious is too stinking cute and is hard to maintain a poker face through.
Monday, June 17, 2019
Traveling Germs
Last week Avery and I were supposed to go to a park on Friday, so we were both off from work and school. Unfortunately, my Aunt passed, so instead we headed to Altoona. It was about 5 hours drive time and I have to give this kid kudos, she was amazing. Unfortunately, she didn't nap but 20 minutes before we arrived at the church for the funeral, so I was worried she would lose her mind. She only had one minor melt during the service. My cousin noted she was happy to see that melt, because up to that point it was too easy. She made it through the afternoon too with everyone around, only going to one Aunt and very briefly. The rest of the time she clung to me, wanting up quite often. The drive back she wiped out for most of it, so that too was an easy drive.
On Saturday she then woke up not wanting to eat much. By the afternoon she had horrendous gas and small/looser poops that happened all too often and a slight fever. Sunday morning she threw up the water she drank twice. After some rest and cuddling she was starting to be herself again. Today she's looking and feeling ok.
My arms, shoulders, and back however aren't feeling great. All of this wanting carried is really taking its toll on me.
On Saturday she then woke up not wanting to eat much. By the afternoon she had horrendous gas and small/looser poops that happened all too often and a slight fever. Sunday morning she threw up the water she drank twice. After some rest and cuddling she was starting to be herself again. Today she's looking and feeling ok.
My arms, shoulders, and back however aren't feeling great. All of this wanting carried is really taking its toll on me.
Sunday, June 9, 2019
What tomorrow may bring
I've been getting way too many glimmers of the future. This evening as Avery jumped on my bed, she sat down for a minute. When I asked if she wanted to cuddle she repeated "cuddle", so I lied down beside her. She then said "hand". So, we sat there watching TV for a few minutes holding hands cuddled up close.
Downstairs she's now able to sit on the couch and play with a toy. There isn't as much need to worry about her falling or running off - although it still happens from time to time... The running off part that is - I certainly hope she doesn't fall!
She seems to know all of the words anymore... and her repertoire is ever-expanding. It could be because she's a little obsessed with books. Unfortunately for me it's often the same couple of books night after night after night.
Downstairs she's now able to sit on the couch and play with a toy. There isn't as much need to worry about her falling or running off - although it still happens from time to time... The running off part that is - I certainly hope she doesn't fall!
She seems to know all of the words anymore... and her repertoire is ever-expanding. It could be because she's a little obsessed with books. Unfortunately for me it's often the same couple of books night after night after night.
Tuesday, June 4, 2019
Bossy!
In addition to "no bite", Avery also says "no push" and "no kick". The best part was discovering she hates kazoos. She immediately made a fretty face, said "no, no mommy, no" and then took the kazoo and put it down. She's repeated this action several times including with her father.
She continues to be struggling at Little Gym. She doesn't want to participate in the time on the mat unless she is carried - that kind of defeats the purpose. Once I can get her going she is usually ok, but some days that initial happiness is hard to find. Of course, it doesn't help when one of the other kids then tackles her or pulls her hair, sending her into a crying fit.
She is a sweet girl. Not an angel, but I can say I have not witnessed her doing the tackling, at least not yet. She will also say "bless you" when you sneeze (that sweet little voice).
Avery has also been initiating walks and managing to go pretty far before she needs to get carried or placed into the stroller. Her stamina is quite remarkable!
She continues to be struggling at Little Gym. She doesn't want to participate in the time on the mat unless she is carried - that kind of defeats the purpose. Once I can get her going she is usually ok, but some days that initial happiness is hard to find. Of course, it doesn't help when one of the other kids then tackles her or pulls her hair, sending her into a crying fit.
She is a sweet girl. Not an angel, but I can say I have not witnessed her doing the tackling, at least not yet. She will also say "bless you" when you sneeze (that sweet little voice).
Avery has also been initiating walks and managing to go pretty far before she needs to get carried or placed into the stroller. Her stamina is quite remarkable!
Wednesday, May 22, 2019
From take a bite to no bite!
Once again Avery got bit at daycare, this time on her back. I understand she was going for a book and someone behind her didn't want her to have it. They got her good. I don't think it broke the skin, but darn near. I am sure she was too busy squealing and crying to tell them "no bite" like she does with us when we're pretend/play biting at or near her.
Today was also great progress as she ate ALL of her salisbury steak, 2 servings of mashed potatoes, two servings of fruit cocktail, and some of the veggies (mixed in with the mashed potatoes). She also woofed down some breakfast w/ me before I dropped her off this morning (a rare treat). For dinner she ate some banana and orange on her own with her fancy new fork while I finished making pancakes - she ate two of those too. I think someone is getting ready for a growth spurt.
The forks are actually metal, smaller versions of what an adult would use with a slightly rounded tip. The kiddie forks couldn't spear anything when I tried to use them, she definitely wasn't successful with them. I'm quite pleased with this Amazon purchase. Hopefully they'll hold up. I might need to go ahead and order her a set of spoons and knives!
Today was also great progress as she ate ALL of her salisbury steak, 2 servings of mashed potatoes, two servings of fruit cocktail, and some of the veggies (mixed in with the mashed potatoes). She also woofed down some breakfast w/ me before I dropped her off this morning (a rare treat). For dinner she ate some banana and orange on her own with her fancy new fork while I finished making pancakes - she ate two of those too. I think someone is getting ready for a growth spurt.
The forks are actually metal, smaller versions of what an adult would use with a slightly rounded tip. The kiddie forks couldn't spear anything when I tried to use them, she definitely wasn't successful with them. I'm quite pleased with this Amazon purchase. Hopefully they'll hold up. I might need to go ahead and order her a set of spoons and knives!
Monday, May 13, 2019
Truly a happy mother('s day)
This mother's day Avery's daddy called her away from the living room and she returned with a card and a box in hand for me. In addition to the hoops she helped me pick out a few weeks ago, she presented me with cute floweresque silver and diamond studs and a card customized with her writing. Of course I immediately started to cry. I can't imagine what a mess I'll be as she gets older and executes her own ideas/creations for me. Her daddy was also sweet enough to get me a plant/flower when he picked one up for his Mom the night before.
We headed to visit her Nonna as well and had a great meal prepared by the Dads. It was a nice day, despite the rain.
I love this little girl. I'm so proud and honored to be her mother. She is truly my greatest achievement, by deepest love, and the sun, moon, and stars in my world.
Thursday, May 9, 2019
Friday, May 3, 2019
Strapping in
Yesterday in the car Avery took her sneaker off as she tends to do on the regular. The shocking part was arriving at our destination and realizing she put it back on! These sneakers have two velcro straps too.
Thursday, May 2, 2019
Playing Hooky with Teacher's Pet
On Tuesday around noon school called - Avery had a fever of 101, so I was off to pick her up. That morning she sneezed and boogs streamed from her nose to her chest, that was a (gross) first and her eyes were watering, so I'll admit I wasn't overly surprised to get the call, but concerned that a fever had joined the party.
By the time I picked her up and got her home I was only getting a reading of 99, so fortunately it was short lived. Regardless, a 101 fever or higher means you're home for 24 hours and she wouldn't be allowed back on Wednesday. When she got home her eyes were definitely still watering, more than they were first thing and her nose was pretty runny, but other than that she remained the happy little girl I know and love, just a little slower and more slimy.
Wednesday she woke up feeling good. Definitely no elevation of temp remained and the snot factory had slowed greatly. Since we were off anyhow and the weather was nice I embraced it and we headed out by 10:30. It's almost Mother's day, that means my ring from last year needed cleaned and checked, so we went to the outlets. This year Avery helped me pick out a pair of small hoop earrings! A quick lunch pickup while she zonked in the back seat and we headed home where she fought the rest of her nap while I tried to get some work time in. After we ran back out to the grocery store as we tapped the milk supply I had due to her unexpected additional time home.
Since she had no signs of communicable illness of concern that day I proceeded with our plans for the evening. Avery's favorite teacher from her first school came to visit! I'm quite confident Avery remembered her as it only took a very brief time for her to warm up and start talking and interacting with her. There was lots of playing, laughing, and enjoying her teacher friend. The only problem is we forgot to take a picture.
By the time I picked her up and got her home I was only getting a reading of 99, so fortunately it was short lived. Regardless, a 101 fever or higher means you're home for 24 hours and she wouldn't be allowed back on Wednesday. When she got home her eyes were definitely still watering, more than they were first thing and her nose was pretty runny, but other than that she remained the happy little girl I know and love, just a little slower and more slimy.
Wednesday she woke up feeling good. Definitely no elevation of temp remained and the snot factory had slowed greatly. Since we were off anyhow and the weather was nice I embraced it and we headed out by 10:30. It's almost Mother's day, that means my ring from last year needed cleaned and checked, so we went to the outlets. This year Avery helped me pick out a pair of small hoop earrings! A quick lunch pickup while she zonked in the back seat and we headed home where she fought the rest of her nap while I tried to get some work time in. After we ran back out to the grocery store as we tapped the milk supply I had due to her unexpected additional time home.
Since she had no signs of communicable illness of concern that day I proceeded with our plans for the evening. Avery's favorite teacher from her first school came to visit! I'm quite confident Avery remembered her as it only took a very brief time for her to warm up and start talking and interacting with her. There was lots of playing, laughing, and enjoying her teacher friend. The only problem is we forgot to take a picture.
Sunday, April 28, 2019
Say Again?
Of course, there are many things Avery says that only we understand. There are just as many things it seems that we haven't figure out yet.
Here is one of the more recent ones that we managed to translate:
"suck" -> at first I thought it was another variation of sock but it never happened in situations that made sense. We've discovered that it tends to actually be "I suck" meaning "I'm/it's stuck".
Here's one that we can't nail down, it sounds like she's saying "dumb". I'm at a complete loss.
Other things I hear a lot:
"I do I do I do I do" spoken with urgency.
Here is one of the more recent ones that we managed to translate:
"suck" -> at first I thought it was another variation of sock but it never happened in situations that made sense. We've discovered that it tends to actually be "I suck" meaning "I'm/it's stuck".
Here's one that we can't nail down, it sounds like she's saying "dumb". I'm at a complete loss.
Other things I hear a lot:
"I do I do I do I do" spoken with urgency.
Saturday, April 27, 2019
Action packed day
After our typical Saturday morning Avery and I quickly headed back out to attend the first birthday party she was invited to! Actually we were all invited as they are friends of her Dad who had a little lady, but it felt like Avery's first birthday party.
After that we went to visit her Nonno! We sat outside and enjoyed the nice weather and walked around the yard collecting different flowers and chasing the chickens. As part of that visit she also made her first (and probably very few) visits to McDonald's at Nonno's suggestion to check out the play area. She ended up crying three times thanks to other kids in 15 minutes. sigh.
The best part was that she was pretty wiped but cuddly when we got home, so I got a nice long cuddle and solid hugs as we sat upstairs for bedtime.
After that we went to visit her Nonno! We sat outside and enjoyed the nice weather and walked around the yard collecting different flowers and chasing the chickens. As part of that visit she also made her first (and probably very few) visits to McDonald's at Nonno's suggestion to check out the play area. She ended up crying three times thanks to other kids in 15 minutes. sigh.
The best part was that she was pretty wiped but cuddly when we got home, so I got a nice long cuddle and solid hugs as we sat upstairs for bedtime.
Tuesday, April 23, 2019
Gnap Gnap
Have you ever watched the episode of the Smurfs where a purple fly bites one and then they start biting, saying "gnap"? Yep. Avery is all "gnap gnap". She's been a bit bitey the past week when she isn't happy with us for constraining her (picking her up when she needs to go do something). I guess it was inevitable, but I was hoping to have skipped that phase since we're to 20 months and they say that starts around 18 months.
While we were away on vacation she also popped out the two lower cuspids. Now we're down to 6 more to go. This at least explained a few bouts of diaper rash we've had lately. I do wonder if it encourages the biting, but her instances of biting all seem to be frustration-based.
We did have a nice cruise vacation together. Avery did well sleeping and we managed to eat in the dining room. She wasn't much of an eater onboard, but we did pretty well without needing a ton of outside food brought on. While in Bermuda we took Avery to a pink sand beach where she played with her bucket and shovel in the sand. She still is not a fan of cool water lapping up at her feet - be it ocean water or the 'beach' pool onboard. In Boston we took Avery to the aquarium. Despite the obscene crowd we had a good time and she enjoyed watching the penguins, fish, sharks, and other critters.
We have lots of great photos once again of her, and the whole family. Sunday was Easter, so we put even more miles in heading to two get togethers. All of these miles in the past week and a half and it was the last couple miles that scared me. Last night we were very lucky on the highway coming home from a bit of shopping. Ben's car is a bit banged up as a result, but we are all well. To my knowledge the folks in the other vehicles were also ok. Long story short a dog ran across the highway. Ben was in the left lane. He and the driver to our right slammed on their breaks. Unfortunately, the guy to our right had another car behind him, and a tractor trailer behind that. The truck didn't get stopped fast enough and crunched the car in the middle, which we believe popped out and came into our lane, hitting us. I believe the dog also was safe and ran up the hillside. Thank you God for watching over us all.
While we were away on vacation she also popped out the two lower cuspids. Now we're down to 6 more to go. This at least explained a few bouts of diaper rash we've had lately. I do wonder if it encourages the biting, but her instances of biting all seem to be frustration-based.
We did have a nice cruise vacation together. Avery did well sleeping and we managed to eat in the dining room. She wasn't much of an eater onboard, but we did pretty well without needing a ton of outside food brought on. While in Bermuda we took Avery to a pink sand beach where she played with her bucket and shovel in the sand. She still is not a fan of cool water lapping up at her feet - be it ocean water or the 'beach' pool onboard. In Boston we took Avery to the aquarium. Despite the obscene crowd we had a good time and she enjoyed watching the penguins, fish, sharks, and other critters.
We have lots of great photos once again of her, and the whole family. Sunday was Easter, so we put even more miles in heading to two get togethers. All of these miles in the past week and a half and it was the last couple miles that scared me. Last night we were very lucky on the highway coming home from a bit of shopping. Ben's car is a bit banged up as a result, but we are all well. To my knowledge the folks in the other vehicles were also ok. Long story short a dog ran across the highway. Ben was in the left lane. He and the driver to our right slammed on their breaks. Unfortunately, the guy to our right had another car behind him, and a tractor trailer behind that. The truck didn't get stopped fast enough and crunched the car in the middle, which we believe popped out and came into our lane, hitting us. I believe the dog also was safe and ran up the hillside. Thank you God for watching over us all.
Friday, April 5, 2019
Losing Track
This morning I asked Avery, to see what she would say, what was on the socks I was preparing to put on her. She announced well enough that I know she understood that they were dinosaurs. You're correct! When I asked what was on her dress she instead decided to put her hands into and announce 'pockets'. Well played girl, yes, there are pockets on that dress ... in addition to the flamingos.
We're to the point now where I've lost track of the words she has used and what she understands. We sat down with a baby's first 100 words book before heading to school since we had a few extra moments and I started asking her where certain things were, getting her to point. She's doing a pretty good job with a lot of things that she isn't saying yet in addition to the words that are getting solidified.
She is also picking her own shoes now, even climbing up on the side of the toy box to reach them on her own. I'm so in trouble. I think I need a little mini tray to put them on the floor.
We're to the point now where I've lost track of the words she has used and what she understands. We sat down with a baby's first 100 words book before heading to school since we had a few extra moments and I started asking her where certain things were, getting her to point. She's doing a pretty good job with a lot of things that she isn't saying yet in addition to the words that are getting solidified.
She is also picking her own shoes now, even climbing up on the side of the toy box to reach them on her own. I'm so in trouble. I think I need a little mini tray to put them on the floor.
Wednesday, March 27, 2019
Sink your shark teeth into this
This post is all about teeth. First, the ones on Avery's "friend" from school (as the teacher referred to him or her) that sunk into her arm yesterday. Poor kid. As I was told she must have been snapping herself into a seat and this "friend" must have wanted that seat. The teacher turned around just in time to see him or her sinking teeth in and they "had a hold of her pretty good". She did have welts from both top and bottom teeth, so I am sure it was unpleasant. I guess in addition to crying she also was staying clear of that "friend" for the remainder of the day. We used this opportunity to practice "owie" as I pointed at those marks.
This morning Avery was awake a bit early. She remained content and entertained, so I remained in bed. Shortly before I needed to get up I heard the following - unfortunately, I wasn't prepared and recording! "Mommy, do do do do, Daddy, do do do do". Yup, I'm pretty sure I caught her first rendition of Baby Shark on the monitor.
This morning Avery was awake a bit early. She remained content and entertained, so I remained in bed. Shortly before I needed to get up I heard the following - unfortunately, I wasn't prepared and recording! "Mommy, do do do do, Daddy, do do do do". Yup, I'm pretty sure I caught her first rendition of Baby Shark on the monitor.
Tuesday, March 26, 2019
Word Practice
We are constantly working towards new words and concepts, but there are always a few that stand out and worthy of note here for future memories.
Let's start with elmo... I mean, elbow. Yup she kept saying elmo, elmo, and I would tell her he's in your bed. Finally she reached up and dinked my elbow. Ah! After a few clear enunciation to her she got it right, but now she's bouncing back and forth. To me, that feels like an odd body part to know the name of already, but given that we're doing pretty good with hair, head, eyes, mouth, and nose - and we have the concept of feet I guess it isn't too outlandish.
Speaking of feet, if you tell her to tickle her doll or Daddy's feet she'll reach out moving her fingers and make her special little 'tickle tickle tickle' sound.
Avery also points out pictures of and live babies saying "baby", this includes her own pictures from when she's tiny.
We have also firmly started to say "yes" with confidence, which is a wondrous relief from all of the times she says "no". We had a full out conversation last night: She signed more at me, I said "more what Baby", she signed and said "eat eat". I said "ok, you're hungry", "yes" she replied! "Would you like a sandwich?" She signs eat. I said "do you want peanut butter or grilled cheese?" and she replied with something undiscernible. I asked again "do you want a peanut butter sandwich?" and she replied "yes". Success! She woofed her dinner down too.
Let's start with elmo... I mean, elbow. Yup she kept saying elmo, elmo, and I would tell her he's in your bed. Finally she reached up and dinked my elbow. Ah! After a few clear enunciation to her she got it right, but now she's bouncing back and forth. To me, that feels like an odd body part to know the name of already, but given that we're doing pretty good with hair, head, eyes, mouth, and nose - and we have the concept of feet I guess it isn't too outlandish.
Speaking of feet, if you tell her to tickle her doll or Daddy's feet she'll reach out moving her fingers and make her special little 'tickle tickle tickle' sound.
Avery also points out pictures of and live babies saying "baby", this includes her own pictures from when she's tiny.
We have also firmly started to say "yes" with confidence, which is a wondrous relief from all of the times she says "no". We had a full out conversation last night: She signed more at me, I said "more what Baby", she signed and said "eat eat". I said "ok, you're hungry", "yes" she replied! "Would you like a sandwich?" She signs eat. I said "do you want peanut butter or grilled cheese?" and she replied with something undiscernible. I asked again "do you want a peanut butter sandwich?" and she replied "yes". Success! She woofed her dinner down too.
Wednesday, March 20, 2019
Slide!
The kids were outside today when I picked Avery up. She pointed to the slide when I arrived and after I asked her about it the teacher noted it was her favorite. I asked if she does it on her own and got an affirmative, so I walked her over and asked her to show me. She promptly climbed up the 5 steps sat down like a champ at the top and slid down. Wow. Just Wow.
Monday, March 18, 2019
Bikini babe
It has been a while since we went swimming. I want to go periodically as to not allow fear of the water to develop. Plus with a vacation planned I want to make sure the water time there will go better than our last cruise/visit to the beach. So, we went to the pool yesterday. At first Avery clung very tight to my side. She smiled as we went in the water, but she wasn't about ready to try and enjoy it too much. It took a while, but she eventually was having a good time as we simulated her jumping from the sides and swimming about. She's now tall enough that she can stand on the platforms they put in the water and keep her head and mouth fully up and out of the water - so she had some time moving on the platform on her own as well (with me wrapped around her like a dome).
In our list of firsts we can chalk up the destruction of something in a store. We went into TJ Maxx and headed towards the restrooms. It is near the kids clothing and toys, so I stopped at a display with toys when a letter puzzle caught my eye. As I picked that up, Avery picked up a mug that someone foolishly placed on this display. As my eyes returned to her she let go. *smash* I felt awful. The staff was so kind. I offered to pay but she had none of it.
As of late too, when Avery's Dad goes to put her to bed she wants me for the final cuddle. I'll admit, it does my heart good in some ways and I want to get those cuddles too. But alas, it also breaks my heart to hear her crying and unhappy when he tries to put her down.
Another note is that I did pick up a doll stroller for Avery which she's been having a blast with around the house. I couldn't make her wait until Easter to get it. So we also have a swing and straps to connect it to the deck coming for part of her Easter gift. Yes, she'll be spoiled, it's all my fault.
In our list of firsts we can chalk up the destruction of something in a store. We went into TJ Maxx and headed towards the restrooms. It is near the kids clothing and toys, so I stopped at a display with toys when a letter puzzle caught my eye. As I picked that up, Avery picked up a mug that someone foolishly placed on this display. As my eyes returned to her she let go. *smash* I felt awful. The staff was so kind. I offered to pay but she had none of it.
As of late too, when Avery's Dad goes to put her to bed she wants me for the final cuddle. I'll admit, it does my heart good in some ways and I want to get those cuddles too. But alas, it also breaks my heart to hear her crying and unhappy when he tries to put her down.
Another note is that I did pick up a doll stroller for Avery which she's been having a blast with around the house. I couldn't make her wait until Easter to get it. So we also have a swing and straps to connect it to the deck coming for part of her Easter gift. Yes, she'll be spoiled, it's all my fault.
Friday, March 8, 2019
Helping with laundry
Avery has always been pretty helpful and responsive if I ask her to hand me something. I shouldn't be as surprised as I am by tonight, but I am.
I neglected to pull her load of laundry from the dryer before I picked her up today. I thought, well let's see if she'll let me fold her laundry when we go up to get ready for bed. I opened the dryer and she started pulling items out one at a time and handing them to me. I'd fold it and take the next item from her. She pulled every single item out of that dryer. I have such a helpful and sweet girl. I'm so proud of her. Don't worry, she was rewarded with reading an extra book before bed!
Her first assessment came from daycare on their scale they ranked her as such, vs what I would have given based on my experience with her at home and the "expectations" for being on schedule:
Communication 25/60 vs 45/60 - on schedule = 30+
Gross Motor 60/60 vs 60/60 - on schedule = 47+
Fine Motor 50/60 vs 55/60 - on schedule = 43+
Problem Solving 30/60 vs 30/60 - on schedule = 36+
Personal/Social 30/60 vs 35/60 - on schedule = 37+
That said, it looks like we need to do a little more with her to test her problem solving skills out and she's a bit more quiet/less talkative at school than she is here at home.
I will note that under problem solving, within the 6 questions one she didn't meet repeated! At the same time, it's one skill I'm glad she hasn't discovered: that putting a cheerio into a bottle she doesn't turn the bottle upside down to dump it out.
I neglected to pull her load of laundry from the dryer before I picked her up today. I thought, well let's see if she'll let me fold her laundry when we go up to get ready for bed. I opened the dryer and she started pulling items out one at a time and handing them to me. I'd fold it and take the next item from her. She pulled every single item out of that dryer. I have such a helpful and sweet girl. I'm so proud of her. Don't worry, she was rewarded with reading an extra book before bed!
Her first assessment came from daycare on their scale they ranked her as such, vs what I would have given based on my experience with her at home and the "expectations" for being on schedule:
Communication 25/60 vs 45/60 - on schedule = 30+
Gross Motor 60/60 vs 60/60 - on schedule = 47+
Fine Motor 50/60 vs 55/60 - on schedule = 43+
Problem Solving 30/60 vs 30/60 - on schedule = 36+
Personal/Social 30/60 vs 35/60 - on schedule = 37+
That said, it looks like we need to do a little more with her to test her problem solving skills out and she's a bit more quiet/less talkative at school than she is here at home.
I will note that under problem solving, within the 6 questions one she didn't meet repeated! At the same time, it's one skill I'm glad she hasn't discovered: that putting a cheerio into a bottle she doesn't turn the bottle upside down to dump it out.
Sunday, March 3, 2019
Incident Report
On Friday when I picked up Avery from daycare I signed my first 'incident report'. When they said they had one for me I admit, I'm awful, and thought it meant she hit someone or something. No, instead she tumbled while running in the gross motor skills room and bonked her head. She has a decent black and blue mark there still tonight.
Throughout the weekend she managed to tap it off of the railings on the stairs and then tonight when she was frustrated she was bopping her head on the kitchen floor.
Speaking of her head... at the pediatrician appointment we measured in at 20" around, that's in the 99th percentile! Her height at 32" which puts her in the 50th percentile and her weight at 25 lbs 1.5 oz, which is in the 75th percentile.
She did get two more shots while there. Today she woke a little snotty and coughy, but seemed less doomed to illness as the day progressed.
We're also getting definitive NOs from her now. Man is she going to be a challenge as she starts to use that big old noggin. Her Dad told her if she didn't eat he was going to turn off Elmo. I didn't think she'd understand it, but when he went and picked up the remote and repeated himself she said No with a tone that rang of "how dare you!"
Throughout the weekend she managed to tap it off of the railings on the stairs and then tonight when she was frustrated she was bopping her head on the kitchen floor.
Speaking of her head... at the pediatrician appointment we measured in at 20" around, that's in the 99th percentile! Her height at 32" which puts her in the 50th percentile and her weight at 25 lbs 1.5 oz, which is in the 75th percentile.
She did get two more shots while there. Today she woke a little snotty and coughy, but seemed less doomed to illness as the day progressed.
We're also getting definitive NOs from her now. Man is she going to be a challenge as she starts to use that big old noggin. Her Dad told her if she didn't eat he was going to turn off Elmo. I didn't think she'd understand it, but when he went and picked up the remote and repeated himself she said No with a tone that rang of "how dare you!"
Thursday, February 28, 2019
I poop, therefore I am.
We remain binky free. That was way too easy. I feel like I say this often with Avery.
She is also telling us "I poo". Usually it is announced after she's gone, but she even told me in advance one day. This is definitely the first step towards potty training. So I went ahead and bought the potty I was planning to get for her. We won't be trying to train any time soon, but I want her to get okay with it being around and even sitting on it fully clothed for the time being.
I've been hearing the above phrase a lot the last few days. She's been a bit loose and diaper rashed. Is it from incisors starting to push down? I can't tell. But I know her rear has been quite sore.
She had a few rough night's of sleep in a row too. The first night she woke with a squealing cry, the one that tells me to get up directly, not to wait it out. I found her feet through the slats fairly far. I was able to get her back down within a reasonably short amount of time, prolonged only by my attempts to get a blanket on her after I put her down (if she starts to cry and stands it comes back off, obviously). The next night we were in the midst of the loose stool. She woke crying and I decided to go in to check to see if she went, rather than leaving her to fall back asleep with a poopy diaper. Sure enough she needed changed. From there she didn't want to go back down as easily.... at least not until she pooed again less than an hour later. Then the third night, shortly before bedtime the power kicked out. Her room is shockingly dark without her clock or sleep machine glowing, so it wasn't the easiest put down.
Tonight we head to the doctor for her 18 month appointment!
Daycare is going well at drop off now, but she continues to come home with report cards that say she's not eating much there other than bread and fruits.
She is also telling us "I poo". Usually it is announced after she's gone, but she even told me in advance one day. This is definitely the first step towards potty training. So I went ahead and bought the potty I was planning to get for her. We won't be trying to train any time soon, but I want her to get okay with it being around and even sitting on it fully clothed for the time being.
I've been hearing the above phrase a lot the last few days. She's been a bit loose and diaper rashed. Is it from incisors starting to push down? I can't tell. But I know her rear has been quite sore.
She had a few rough night's of sleep in a row too. The first night she woke with a squealing cry, the one that tells me to get up directly, not to wait it out. I found her feet through the slats fairly far. I was able to get her back down within a reasonably short amount of time, prolonged only by my attempts to get a blanket on her after I put her down (if she starts to cry and stands it comes back off, obviously). The next night we were in the midst of the loose stool. She woke crying and I decided to go in to check to see if she went, rather than leaving her to fall back asleep with a poopy diaper. Sure enough she needed changed. From there she didn't want to go back down as easily.... at least not until she pooed again less than an hour later. Then the third night, shortly before bedtime the power kicked out. Her room is shockingly dark without her clock or sleep machine glowing, so it wasn't the easiest put down.
Tonight we head to the doctor for her 18 month appointment!
Daycare is going well at drop off now, but she continues to come home with report cards that say she's not eating much there other than bread and fruits.
Tuesday, February 19, 2019
More leaps towards toddlerhood
The latest things I have to report on Avery's progress towards becoming a big girl include both her first independent attempt at a somersault (which I caught on video by accident) and the removal of her binky or at least so far.
School had reported that she only used the binky at nap time for a few days after joining them. Once I learned this I decided to try taking it away at nap times, which went well, so tonight is now the third night without her binky. Avery is fussing a bit after going down, but settling mostly on her own. I wonder if I will be officially able to call the binky a thing of the past by the 18 month mark.
School had reported that she only used the binky at nap time for a few days after joining them. Once I learned this I decided to try taking it away at nap times, which went well, so tonight is now the third night without her binky. Avery is fussing a bit after going down, but settling mostly on her own. I wonder if I will be officially able to call the binky a thing of the past by the 18 month mark.
Saturday, February 9, 2019
What's your name?
I am telling you, every day... every day there is something new. Avery is definitely trying to say her name in response to the inquiry "what is your name?" It sounds more like A-ree, but it's very consistent.
She is also trying to say Aunt Jackie and even Barry for our friend Mr. Barry.
Today I also caught her on film doing two other things. First "going fast" (sticking her arms out nehind her and trotting away). I guess it is from some old cartoon. Ask her Dad. The second was her first attempt to complete a forward roll on her own! She went off to the side but it was a good try.
She is also trying to say Aunt Jackie and even Barry for our friend Mr. Barry.
Today I also caught her on film doing two other things. First "going fast" (sticking her arms out nehind her and trotting away). I guess it is from some old cartoon. Ask her Dad. The second was her first attempt to complete a forward roll on her own! She went off to the side but it was a good try.
Thursday, February 7, 2019
Everything changing
The smile evolved into actually reaching for a teacher in the morning. Today I only got one quick hug before the turn away from me happened. I'll blame it on the yummy smelling breakfast, but I think Avery is feeling okay with her new daycare.
Today I got her out of the seat in the lot and carried her to the sidewalk. From there she walked into the building herself. I was going to march her straight to the classroom, but she stopped at her hook and started working to get her jacket off. How big is my girl?! At this point she would not walk any further, so I gladly picked her up for a hug as we took the last few steps down the hall.
On the way out I held her little hand as she walked down the hall and up all of the stairs to the door. Since it was rainy and gross I carried her from there.
She still isn't loving all of their food however, so she was ready to eat when we got home. She ate a cutie all by herself, save one slice I tried, and then she grabbed the spoon and proceeded to make good progress on the fruit and cereal and yogurt. She was even willing to try a couple of little bits of my steak!
Avery's vocabulary continues to expand every day. I counted over 30 words and 12 signs, but I know I am missing some in my list. When she can understand is beyond all of that for sure as she seems to really grasp a lot of concepts.
Today I got her out of the seat in the lot and carried her to the sidewalk. From there she walked into the building herself. I was going to march her straight to the classroom, but she stopped at her hook and started working to get her jacket off. How big is my girl?! At this point she would not walk any further, so I gladly picked her up for a hug as we took the last few steps down the hall.
On the way out I held her little hand as she walked down the hall and up all of the stairs to the door. Since it was rainy and gross I carried her from there.
She still isn't loving all of their food however, so she was ready to eat when we got home. She ate a cutie all by herself, save one slice I tried, and then she grabbed the spoon and proceeded to make good progress on the fruit and cereal and yogurt. She was even willing to try a couple of little bits of my steak!
Avery's vocabulary continues to expand every day. I counted over 30 words and 12 signs, but I know I am missing some in my list. When she can understand is beyond all of that for sure as she seems to really grasp a lot of concepts.
Monday, January 28, 2019
A smile is progress
Today Avery smiled for Miss Tracey when we arrived. She clung to me and didn't want to go to her, but she smiled. That's progress.
I look back at every picture I post and wonder how can she get cuter with every single one. God I love this little girl so much.
I look back at every picture I post and wonder how can she get cuter with every single one. God I love this little girl so much.
Friday, January 25, 2019
Emotionally Exhausted
It's been a rough week emotionally. Avery isn't pleased thus far. Sure, by the end of the day she seems content enough. When I walk into the open play area to pick her up she's playing in a car or toddling about, but she's quick with a smile for me and she heads my direction - ready to go home.
She also isn't thrilled with the food. I know she'll get there, but all week all she wanted to eat at daycare were the bread-based foods they offered with a wee bit of fruit and her milk. C'mon kid, you gotta eat more than that. Needless to say she comes home hungry and asking me for food.
I hate seeing her crying and clinging to me each morning. It breaks my heart. Couple that with worries for friends and hearing that our favorite teacher, as I'll admit was expected, is going somewhere else and I'm feeling down. I'm waking up several times at night and just not rested.
The evenings somehow seem shorter too, like I'm not seeing Avery at all. I need this weekend, that's for sure.
Today I take a load of spring/summer clothes to consignment. I'm also going to pull off the band aid and take Avery's swing. As I've commented before, it brought her so much comfort and peace that it is hard to part with.
She also isn't thrilled with the food. I know she'll get there, but all week all she wanted to eat at daycare were the bread-based foods they offered with a wee bit of fruit and her milk. C'mon kid, you gotta eat more than that. Needless to say she comes home hungry and asking me for food.
I hate seeing her crying and clinging to me each morning. It breaks my heart. Couple that with worries for friends and hearing that our favorite teacher, as I'll admit was expected, is going somewhere else and I'm feeling down. I'm waking up several times at night and just not rested.
The evenings somehow seem shorter too, like I'm not seeing Avery at all. I need this weekend, that's for sure.
Today I take a load of spring/summer clothes to consignment. I'm also going to pull off the band aid and take Avery's swing. As I've commented before, it brought her so much comfort and peace that it is hard to part with.
Sunday, January 20, 2019
Tomorrow is off to college
We had a great weekend. Avery continued wanting to sleep in, which doesn't bode well for tomorrow morning, since we need to get up and get moving a bit earlier than we did for our previous care plans. I did get her down for bed a bit early tonight, so that should help some. I feel like I am taking her for her first day of school tomorrow. I know I'll survive the change, but I need to get through the first day or two to settle myself.
She also enjoyed her bath again tonight! Lately baths = tears. I'm glad she was laughing and splashing again with only a few tears when her hair was getting rinsed.
We're also starting to fight a little bit of diaper rash again. She's had her finger in her mouth a good bit so maybe a tooth is pushing upward, but I cannot see anything just yet.
I decided the other day I needed to start an inventory of Avery's words, signs, and the things she clearly understands. I was trying to get a real grasp of where she was. Here's where we are, I have to say, I am quite impressed with her - once again.
Words:
Mama
Daddy
Baby
Gigi - dog?
Saffy
Neen
Elmo
Eat
Up
Please
Thank you
Huh-uh - no
Apple
I love you
Moo (for cow)
Oops
Uh-oh
All done
Sock
Help
Shoe
Bubble
Signs:
Eat
Drink
Water
Milk
Please
Thank you
Cookie
I love you
Finished
More
Other things she understands:
Shapes in the shape sorter - if she gets the wrong one she shakes her head no
Sheepie
Book
Waves hi/bye
Holds phone to ear
She also enjoyed her bath again tonight! Lately baths = tears. I'm glad she was laughing and splashing again with only a few tears when her hair was getting rinsed.
We're also starting to fight a little bit of diaper rash again. She's had her finger in her mouth a good bit so maybe a tooth is pushing upward, but I cannot see anything just yet.
I decided the other day I needed to start an inventory of Avery's words, signs, and the things she clearly understands. I was trying to get a real grasp of where she was. Here's where we are, I have to say, I am quite impressed with her - once again.
Words:
Mama
Daddy
Baby
Gigi - dog?
Saffy
Neen
Elmo
Eat
Up
Please
Thank you
Huh-uh - no
Apple
I love you
Moo (for cow)
Oops
Uh-oh
All done
Sock
Help
Shoe
Bubble
Signs:
Eat
Drink
Water
Milk
Please
Thank you
Cookie
I love you
Finished
More
Other things she understands:
Shapes in the shape sorter - if she gets the wrong one she shakes her head no
Sheepie
Book
Waves hi/bye
Holds phone to ear
Thursday, January 17, 2019
Transition to new places
So far this week, Avery has been doing amazingly at my friend's place w/ her kids and Nanny. They both told me what a chill child she is and how much fun. She's taking good naps there, starting to go back down at night w/o issue (after a few days of struggle w/ naps and bedtime), and even wanting to sleep in a bit in the morning. They're definitely wearing her out. She's coming home with art work and getting exposed to different foods as well.
This shift is making me feel like she'll be okay next week and that the changes to food and routine are going to be good for her.
I dropped off some supplies at her new daycare this morning and picked up our keyfobs.
This shift is making me feel like she'll be okay next week and that the changes to food and routine are going to be good for her.
I dropped off some supplies at her new daycare this morning and picked up our keyfobs.
Monday, January 14, 2019
Daycare Drama!
Our daycare was in the process of being sold. Unfortunately, it sounds like the new owner's application was denied. We learned about this Saturday evening rather abruptly from the current owner in a message saying the daycare was closing effective immediately (quite contrary to the plan that had been laid out). Talk about a shock to the system.
I hate change. I hate uncertainty. I hate feeling like there is nothing I can do (that's pretty much the definition of needing to find a new daycare on a weekend night). More than ANY of that, I loathe the thought of Avery being thrust into a scary/new situation that I can't explain to her in a way she would understand.
While I solved the need to obtain care I feel good about both for the immediate (this week) through the graciousness of a friend and neighbor and the assist of their nanny and for the longer term (starting next week) at a center that seems to have a program that seems like a good place for Avery to keep growing and learning... I can't eliminate the change in Avery's world. I know that we'll look back after the dust is settled and all will be well, but right now I remain a bit stressed and trying to shake it off.
We're going to miss Avery's teachers. Maybe even one of her friends will join us there too. I am hopeful that maybe we'll see someone at our new place as they are hiring and taking other students, but I know that's a long shot.
I prayed for guidance to know the right place and I do feel like I was pointed in a direction that points back to God, so I am trusting in Him that this is the place for us.
I hate change. I hate uncertainty. I hate feeling like there is nothing I can do (that's pretty much the definition of needing to find a new daycare on a weekend night). More than ANY of that, I loathe the thought of Avery being thrust into a scary/new situation that I can't explain to her in a way she would understand.
While I solved the need to obtain care I feel good about both for the immediate (this week) through the graciousness of a friend and neighbor and the assist of their nanny and for the longer term (starting next week) at a center that seems to have a program that seems like a good place for Avery to keep growing and learning... I can't eliminate the change in Avery's world. I know that we'll look back after the dust is settled and all will be well, but right now I remain a bit stressed and trying to shake it off.
We're going to miss Avery's teachers. Maybe even one of her friends will join us there too. I am hopeful that maybe we'll see someone at our new place as they are hiring and taking other students, but I know that's a long shot.
I prayed for guidance to know the right place and I do feel like I was pointed in a direction that points back to God, so I am trusting in Him that this is the place for us.
Friday, January 11, 2019
When I enjoy being told no.
When I take Avery to bed we go through our routine. At the end, after our prayers, with the lights out I cuddle her for a minute or two. She puts her head down on my shoulder and I rub her back. It doesn't take long. Usually I can say "are you ready to lay down with Sheepie" and she looks towards her bed and points - she's ready.
Tonight my inquiry was repeatedly met with "huh-uh" and she'd shift around and re-cuddle in. This went on for a good 15 minutes before I decided I really needed to go ahead and put her in her crib and get downstairs to look at the work computer and do some dishes (whee).
I pray on one hand that I never spoil her or create a monster that requires being held to go to sleep, etc. On the other hand, I pray that I never miss an opportunity to have a sweet moment with my sweet little girl.
Tonight my inquiry was repeatedly met with "huh-uh" and she'd shift around and re-cuddle in. This went on for a good 15 minutes before I decided I really needed to go ahead and put her in her crib and get downstairs to look at the work computer and do some dishes (whee).
I pray on one hand that I never spoil her or create a monster that requires being held to go to sleep, etc. On the other hand, I pray that I never miss an opportunity to have a sweet moment with my sweet little girl.
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