I'm a Mom. After years of desire and uncertainty if the day would ever come here I am. Follow along on the adventure..
Sunday, December 27, 2020
Not your average Christmas
Monday, December 21, 2020
And another...
Yet another teacher from Avery's school. This time in her room. Taking a deep breath.
Truly Diaper Free
Avery has resisted the diaper at night for a while. I've joked that she liked how it felt to breathe free. Well lately it has become a thing. It culminated in a melt down last night. When I got her to use her words she told me she didn't like diapers, so I asked if she wanted to try wearing undies overnight. She's been dry overnight for a while -- heck she doesn't even want to pee when she gets up in the morning.
She isn't up just yet, but I do have high hopes. Admittedly I am a bit nervous because she strolled into my room at 4am and she's asleep in my bed at the moment. She does come over periodically, but not every night. It is usually after she wakes from a dream, or so it seems based on what she says when she arrives at my bedside.
Saturday, December 19, 2020
Holiday Homeschool
Whelp. Daycare is now officially closed until Jan 4 or 5. They had one student's parent test positive, but the exposure to the facility was low enough that they were going to continue operating. Now a teacher (unrelated) in another room is positive and they doors are closed.
I knew this was coming at some point. In theory the timing is the best it could be since I have 2 paid holidays off during this window. I also had 2 vacation days scheduled, but I knew I wasn't going to be able to really take them off given the large amount of things on my to do list. This is going to be challenging, but the bright side is I get more time with my pumpkin.
Monday, December 14, 2020
Trying to find Jesus
Tuesday, December 8, 2020
I don't like that anymore
A few days ago the kid tells her Dad she wants different sounds on her bed time sound machine.
After three years of gentle "neighborhood sounds" she now wants Brahm's lullaby.
Tonight she says "I don't like that any more" to the critter projector and we reverted to the black, red, and white abstract shapes insert.
The opinions are coming a bit more frequently, for sure! Ger memory is remarkable. She is doing well remembering pieces of the Our Father when guided through.
Another playdate with her buddy Luke this past weekend. We went for a walk and saw Santa in the community and grabbed a yummy cinnamon bun. That is on top of seeing the Grinch in town several times in the past couple of weeks. she loves passing the town Christmas tree and Sarris tree all lit up at night.
Monday, November 23, 2020
Target run and done
M: If they do a PJ day at school later this week, which ones do you want to wear?
A: Skeleton ones.
M: You don't have skeleton PJs.
A: We can just go to Target and get some.
Friday, November 20, 2020
Tuesday, November 3, 2020
Family and Holiday Season Begins
My worries in my last post were unfounded. She's holding it through the night and not waking up. Avery has only had one or two slight accidents (where she caught it after a few drops as she rushed to the bathroom). She really has the potty thing down, even if we're out somewhere! In the past week she started saying she didn't need the seat insert and can climb up there and balance just fine w/o it.
This month has been very focused on family too. Avery's Aunt Jackie and Cousin Dani came to visit for a couple of weeks, during which time her Aunt Susanne also joined us. We had a full house. This was the first time Cousin Dani and Avery met - and I am pretty sure, although Cousin Dani will never admit it, she digs her. Always good when my two favorite rugrats get along.
For Halloween this year Avery had her dinosaur costume for the school parade. The parade was outdoors this year due to the virus and a bit chilly, but Aunt Jackie and I stuck it out to watch. Then Aunt Jackie put the finishing touches on a Zero the dog hat and with some help from Cousin Dani we rigged up something to keep a sheet in perfect placement to complete the costume for trick or treat. Our weather was so much nicer than last year.
Tuesday, October 6, 2020
I didn't think this part through
Avery has woken several days with a dry diaper and made it to the potty. Don't get me wrong, it is great that she is mastering the whole potty situation.. but I didn't think about some of the implications.
Last night she strolled into my bedroom somewhere after 3am and woke me. She needed to potty.
I guess it's time to really start letting her wipe herself and taking steps to get confident that she won't unfurl the whole roll of paper.
Saturday, October 3, 2020
In total control
All 5 days this week Avery went to school in undies and returned in the same (dry) undies and pants. Today we headed to soccer and out to shop, which made me nervous to attempt in just undies, so we put on a diapie with undies over top. I'll put it like this -- the girl has it down. I also now understand what they mean that you'll learn where every bathroom is. We hit the one at Target, the one in Bed Bath and Beyond, the one in TJIFridays, and the one in Burlington.
She also proved her ability to hold it for a little while before we hit the bathroom in Target. She was crying pretty hard and I had to get the need out of her!
Tuesday, September 29, 2020
High and Dry
Monday, September 28, 2020
Big Girl
It has been a busy and exciting month for Avery. She moved up to the first pre-school class early in the month. While her besty didn't move up with her, he wasn't too far behind.
School photos are done and are cute, even though she isn't doing more than smirking, not really smiling.
Today she went to school in underwear! We had a great day yesterday, she made it the whole way through and earned herself a candy bar after dinner.
She doesn't really look like a toddler anymore. Her legs are long and she can run pretty darn fast. We have had a good time outside with the neighbor girls, last night we were playing with caterpillars off of the kale plants.
Tuesday, September 1, 2020
Town Pool
This past weekend we made our first, and surely not last, visit to our towns pool. It is every bit as nice as the pool I spent way too many hours in as a child. They also have a separated kiddie pool with a little duckie slide and waterfall feature. They also keep one lane available for lap swimming!
Sign me up. I am ready for a season pass. I am sure that it isn't usually as empty as it was when we were there, but we loved it - even though the water was a bit chilly.
Monday, August 24, 2020
3!
And just like that she is 3. I took today off and held Avery home from daycare. We visited her extra grandpap, Mr Barry, went for breakfast, picked up her gorgeous dinosaur cake, opened gifts, hunted butterflies and bugs in the back yard, and generally enjoyed our time together.
I measured her at 34.5 lbs and 37". We'll see where she comes in at her Dr appt later this week.
Yesterday we had her photos taken, they're not all back yet, but the teaser was adorable. How could they not be? After the photos we walked around Peter's Lake. Saturday Avery and I went to meet up with her cousins for a picnic at a playground. It's been a busy and fun weekend.
Thursday, August 20, 2020
Play Date
Saturday, August 15, 2020
A comforting vision
I pray a lot for this kid. On Friday I finished up my work a little bit early, although, not as early as I had wanted. I took a few minutes out back pulling some weeds before I went to pick up Avery. During my drudgery work I was praying. My thoughts were about God always being with Avery and watching over her, that He would be with her and she would know Him. I believe that children have an easier time hearing His voice, so I also prayed that she might be gifted in that regard. I noted even in my prayers that I know we aren't to test God for 'signs' or 'answers'.
I then headed to get her from school. We were headed for ice cream at Sarris because she had a banner day potty wise at school and because it was Friday -- we both deserved a treat. I quickly realized we'd be crazy early for a curbside order, so I turned around to go to Dollar General. Stopped at the light in front of the White Eagle club she says from the back seat "is that Jesus?"
I looked all around and no one was on the sidewalk there or near the parking lot on the side. I asked her where and she pointed out the window in the direction I was looking. Imagine my surprise as it settled in. I asked her what he was doing and she said he was sitting there. Thank you Lord.
Laying in bed I was curious so I pulled up the stereotypical photos of Jesus on google images and asked her who it was -- she said Jesus. I don't have tons of pictures of him around the house nor do I recall pointing him out in the small cards I do have. I am sure she's seen photos elsewhere, but stilll!
Friday, August 7, 2020
The feeling is mutual.
Last night during prayers Avery included Luke in her family list. She quickly followed it up with "I love him". I guess given my last post it only took her a little while to realize the feeling was mutual.
We also had Avery's dentist appointment yesterday. Fortunately her buddy Luke told her about his recent trip and she was psyched to go. We had a very good report and they indicated her teeth were very clean. Yay!
Final note -- the threes are hitting pretty hard. Avery's desire to do what she wants is pretty darn frustrating. Mostly I am sure because she's been so easy to this point.
Thursday, July 23, 2020
Who loves you?
Wednesday, July 22, 2020
Our own events
Sunday, July 5, 2020
Best Buddies and Holidays
Monday, June 29, 2020
Pop goes the weasel
Saturday, June 27, 2020
On the go, gotta go.
Today we went out to do a little shopping and Avery said "I have to potty". Oh no. I didn't want to not listen, so we went to the public restroom. Wow that's a nightmare, especially in the smaller stall. But she did it - she peed in a public bathroom. Thank goodness she changed her mind about needing to poo, because I don't know how I would have balanced her and managed to get paper to wipe her successfully.
Sunday, June 21, 2020
Big Girl Bed
Sunday, June 14, 2020
Berry sweet
She's getting so big. She did a great job picking and listened well. She can even get in and out of the wagon for the hay ride to and from the fields with minimal assistance. My baby is getting so big.
Saturday, May 30, 2020
It's wake up time
Speaking of working on things, during her time here at home Avery has gotten pretty good at spelling her first name and we're getting better with prompting at spelling her middle name. She can tell you what city and street she lives in/on and is starting to get the right numbers but not in the right sequence for our house number.
Friday, May 22, 2020
Keeping Track
I also wanted to note a few more little things that I'm terming "LifeWithAvery":
- Another shirt, this one my Jason from Friday the 13th tee. He is standing there with a big ol' knife in his hand. She joyfully points to it and says "that is for cutting cake". That's my girl.
- During prayers I commented about her successful efforts during potty-training that day. She turned to me with her eyes wide and said "did you say potty train?" from the look on her face I can only image what she was picturing.
- More commentary on my derriere at bed time. This time it was with little rhyme or reason: This time she said "your butt's not big, it's little". Flattery will get you almost everywhere dear child, but you are going to bed.
Monday, May 18, 2020
Kissing Concrete
This morning when we tried the same not too long into the process she told me "I need to poop Mommy". YAY! We came upstairs and she immediately went potty. That's a huge win. After we went back outside and it wasn't but a short period later that she took a tumble while pushing her little bus along the concrete. She went booty over teacup and face planted. I saw the tumble starting from the corner of my eye, but there was no way to get to her in time. From the look of the resulting boo-boos on the left side of her face, I would say she thumped the forehead high, bounced a bit, and then hit again with part of her lower forehead above her eyebrow, her cheek, the side of her nose, and even her eyelid.
She was quite unhappy for a minute, so I just cuddled her. Once she was calm and I got a look I was glad it wasn't worse than it is. She did let me clean it off and put some ointment on it. Man that's going to be uncomfortable when it scabs. Lord help me keep her from picking.
Wednesday, May 13, 2020
She makes me laugh
To start with... if I haven't mentioned it before, she adores ghosties (she's my kid and loves Halloween, go figure). I'm wearing my Pacman blue ghost shirt, so I tell her "this is what ghosts looked like when I was a kid, they were 8-bit". Her reply, unprompted, without missing a beat was "that's a byte". I might be taking some liberties on the spelling of said word to reflect what my mind heard. But she's right ya know.
Then... tonight she jumped into the rocker/recliner in her room and wanted me to sit beside her. When I said I wouldn't fit not only did she tell me that my butt was too big, she also started to sing "Mommy's got a big ol' butt -- oh yea"
But she wasn't finished. She and her Daddy have their little gang signs they throw up that involve two hands signing "I love you" every night. As he left the room it was like she was trying to teach me. She said "it's ten", stuck up her thumb, "one", stuck up her pointer finger, "and pinky", sticking up her pinky. Why yes, the sign for I love you is a combo of ten, one, and your pinky. Good job kid.
Friday, May 8, 2020
I want panties
At least if we're not allowed to go out and live our lives there won't be the obstacle of public restrooms anytime soon.
Friday, May 1, 2020
Just so you know -- I can do this.
She's 32 months, it's a bit ridiculous that she hasn't done it before. Just under a week ago she told me she wanted to get into bed on her own one night. Ok, so I said how are you doing to do that? She promptly climbed up and over into her bed and looked at me with a smirk on her face. Since then she demonstrated for her dad that she could climb out too. Today I made her show me as well. The good news is, she has always been a great sleeper once she's out, so I still don't see her getting up in the middle of the night. She also patiently stays in her crib during nap time, even when she doesn't want to sleep. I guess I really need to get that toddler rail that matches the crib.
Earlier today we were watching a show that switched to a scene with a woman in skates on ice with a stick and Avery immediately said "hockey" she gets it - and I haven't even been watching hockey with her, sadly.
Shortly we'll be heading out to do a cookie parade past Avery's school. I hope she'll be able to see her teachers as we go by.
Sunday, April 26, 2020
Won't you be my neighbor
We had a couple of poops on the potty today and a few pees. I know I need to get crazy about the frequency to bring things home. If we could keep some warm temps for more than a day at a time maybe we could go outside in big girl panties and see how she reacts when things happen.
Both days this weekend we skipped naptime. I didn't even try to put her down, and she made it through with minimal hissy-fit. I am so not ready for her to give up naps, especially right now as I need nap time to get work hours in, but she is also getting better about entertaining herself and playing solo for little spurts of time.
Sunday, April 12, 2020
All dressed up and nowhere to go
I guess we'll never know how she would have done with the Easter bunny this year. There's something sad about that. We video chatted with Aunt Jackie and our buddy Mr. B today but that's still not the same as being out and about. I don't know when life will get to go back to normal. When the time comes I wonder how Avery will adjust back to school and other activities.
Tuesday, March 31, 2020
Who loves you?
Avery is doing well feeding herself things like yogurt without making a tremendous mess. She's gotten so much better at pushing the pedals on her bike on her own. She's having some good days and some less than great days with using the potty. All in all, she may not be learning all of the things she'd learn at school, but she is picking up other things here at home. I do need to keep pressing on getting her to spell and write her name, but we have time - lots and lots of time from the sound of it.
Monday, March 23, 2020
Two full time jobs and potty training
We've decided to work harder on potty training and today Avery told me she had to go before it happened twice - once for each 'activity'! I'm quite proud and she enjoyed her M&Ms.
Nap time however is not going as well. She's been wailing since 1 and it's almost 3. I've been trying to wear her out by running around and going outside when the weather has been allowing, but this is hard.
Monday, March 16, 2020
Quarantine
Tuesday, March 10, 2020
Rebel rebel
The latest is not wanting to wear what I'm trying to put on her. It's pretty hard to get a shirt on a kid that doesn't want it on. The past two days all she wants is the owl shirt, one she wore (and dirtied) on Sunday.
She's getting big and independent, but at the same time she still says she's a baby. I know the time will come when she says "I'm not a baby!" so I'm embracing this all and telling her she will always be my baby but that she's my big girl too.
I'm hoping nicer weather and more activities will help us get past some of this phase. We've been trying to take advantage of a small dose of warmer weather. Sunday we were outside coloring with chalk and Monday we went for a short walk and rode on her tricycle after she left school. It was nice enough that they even had the kids in the playground at the end of the day.
Monday, March 2, 2020
That's new!
Sunday, February 23, 2020
Easy peasy lets us enjoy summer breezy!
Since we returned she had another great week at daycare with regard to the potty - she pooed there!
Saturday, January 25, 2020
Trying to keep up
Monday, January 20, 2020
That's weird right?
Wednesday, January 15, 2020
On a streak...
I also wanted to make some notes on the books that Avery has been adoring. She definitely gets on kicks with books. A while back she was obsessed with Pat the Bunny. As of late her obsession is Dog's Colorful Day. We often see I'm a Little Teapot too (not my favorite).
As to her Christmas gifts it seems that the art easel is well loved, but I think the biggest success was the ice cream stand. She plays with it most every night and I can see how her play with it will evolve as she learns and gets older.