While away on vacation with a very close friend I admitted what I was thinking/intending. I was pleasantly surprised with her reaction. Other than utter surprise she didn't make me feel one way or the other. She offered some insightful thoughts and made my first "coming out" to a friend very easy and reassuring.
This time was a good opportunity for me to think a bit and to get away from all of it. I think the next big step I need to take is calling the potential new gyno to see how they perceive this type of thing. I do not want to be yolked to a doctor who doesn't support my choice, as I know I then wouldn't receive the care I deserve.