I've got a friend that I know has considered this option, but has since cast it aside considering the scenario too much for her on her own. As I sat across the table from her today at lunch I just wanted to spit out what my game plan was and beg her to consider diving into it too at the same time.
The next questions that started to occur to me, which I hope will be addressed in some of my reading, is when to start preparation. I know I need to be off the pill for a little while, and should probably see the doctor in advance. This last piece is especially important since my gyno is leaving! I need to pick a new office where I'd feel comfortable, and hopefully one where they're comfortable with my plans.