So, tomorrow I will call and order one more specimen. That's 5 total and 4 attempts. They have a guarantee to get 1 vial free if you try 4 cycles unsuccessfully, so save for that specimen... I think I've decided to say if this doesn't work I'll be focusing my efforts to putting the house on the market and getting the heck out of PA. If I can't work on a family on my own I should embrace the desire to run away and be somewhere I have a chance of finding someone, right?